Payton Jay Abernathy
Payton Jay Abernathy
February 27, 1990 – September 26, 2024
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Payton Jay Abernathy, beloved husband, father, son, brother, nephew, and friend. Payton passed away unexpectedly on September 26, 2024, in Kingwood, Texas, from a tragic fall. Born on February 27, 1990, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, to Patrick Abernathy and Kathy Fitzgerald, Payton faced many hardships early in life, losing his mother when he was just 13 years old. Despite these challenges, he grew into a loving, kind-hearted man known for his incredible generosity and his unwavering dedication to helping others.
Payton earned his bachelor’s degree from Oklahoma State University and went on to build a successful career in roofing, eventually founding his own company, *Dynasty Roofing and Construction*. His skill and drive earned him the reputation of a “roofing god” in sales. Payton’s work ethic, leadership, and passion for his craft left a lasting impact on his team and everyone around him.
He lived in League City, Texas, with his wife, Victoria, and was a devoted father to their daughter, Scarlet, and their son on the way, who will be named Payton in his honor. He cherished his family above all else, finding his greatest joy in their company. Payton is survived by his father, Patrick Abernathy of Stillwater, OK; siblings, Tosha McAuliff of Jenks, OK, Tamara Bynum of Arcadia, OK, and Brandon McDaniel of Humble, TX; as well as his Aunt Kathy Lovell; Cathy Adams of OK; Uncle Dennis Abernathy of Stillwater, OK; Uncle Darrell Fitzgerald of WY; and Uncle Sean Fitzgerald of OK. He is preceded in death by his mother, Kathy Fitzgerald, grandparents, June and Arless Abernathy.
Payton loved the outdoors and was always up for an adventure. Hiking, exploring, or simply spending time in nature were his favorite pastimes. He overcame a difficult past and transformed his life through strength and resilience. In January, he would have celebrated three years of sobriety—a testament to his determination and love for his family. Payton also shared his life with his loyal dog, Diamond, who loved to accompany him on his adventures.
Known for his dark sense of humor and boundless love, Payton was a health enthusiast, a driven individual, and was deeply spiritual. He expressed gratitude to God every day, and he was a guiding light to all who knew him. He will be forever missed by his family, friends, and the countless lives he touched.
A memorial service to honor Payton’s life will be held on Sunday, October 6, 2024, at 1:00 PM at the Bay Area Club. All who knew and loved him are welcome to attend.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Bay Area Club. https://www.bayareaclub.org/donate
Love you all , I miss him so much. Thank you for mentioning his dark sense of humor, that was the glue that held our bond together. Naming the boy Payton just sent me. That makes my heart so happy, we will all make sure he knows his namesake and how incredibly influential Payton was in such a positive way.
May your family find comfort in God’s loving embrace during your time of greatest need. Prayers for all🙏
My truest condolences to all family and friends grieving.Payton and I have worked side by side now in the roofing industry at our old company to my new company he built me up and kept me going.This man was the hardest worker I’ve met out here and I have a tremendous amount of respect like that.This just doesn’t even feel real right now and I will always be willing to help his family or colleagues with anything I can
With much respect and love I am so sorry
Payton was such an admirable man and someone who I looked up to for his success in business and willingness to help others. I respected him greatly.. he will be deeply missed
My condolences to all of Payton’s family at home and dynasty roofing and construction…this still has not washed away and will probably never be…but that’s ok i will forever miss Payton and forever will he hold a place in my ♥️ he’s my brother for life and i will see u in the next chapter of my brother …love u forever ! Rest in peace my brother 🙏
Peyton j Abernathy was my brother. From the day that his dad came up to my family’s front door and said it’s a boy! I just remember how excited Pat was. I was 12 years old. And now hearing about this is just absolutely unbelievable. Peyton, went through all kinds of trials and errors of life and came out nothing but a genuine champion. Nothing but love and respect and wonderful memories of somebody who recognized me as their own brother. I love you Peyton j. Always and forever sleep while you can because you’re going to be welcomed into the king of heaven.
I am so sorry for your loss and to lose such a good man. Although we only worked together for a short time, I always enjoyed our discussions, and his humor. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.