O.J. “Buddy” Herring Jr.

O.J. “Buddy” Herring Jr. (Coach Herring) (80) of Santa Fe, Texas, passed away on February 11, 2025, at HCA Mainland Hospital.  He was born at home in League City, Texas, on August 2, 1944.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Rev. O.J. Herring Sr. and Margaret Annie Stolz Herring, and Grandfather Carl Stolz.

“Buddy” is survived by his loving wife Susan Marie Manning Herring and sons, Ocie “Jim” Herring III(wife Katherine) and  Kevin Lane Herring(wife Meredith),  grandchildren: Paul Herring(wife Priscilla), Derek Tift(wife Jessica), Erin Smith;  great grandchildren: Isla and Everly; sister Carolyn Chafin of Sweeny; nieces Candy and Lynn and their families, and  many dear friends.

Buddy’s early years centered around life as a preacher’s kid. His parents, ordained of the Assemblies of God, planted churches ranging from Alvin to Genoa, Brazoria to League City. His mother taught him to sing, play the piano and later the organ. His father showed him storytelling, gentleness, and how to serve others. Both taught him to love and trust the Lord. As a child, he took delight in the big locomotives and would take train rides with his Grandpa Carl.  He joined the La Marque Band, where he met his high school sweetheart Susan. He played trombone and she played the drums. Buddy and Susan were married almost 59 years. He had a love for sports and often gathered the neighborhood teens for a game. In 1962 after he graduated from La Marque High School, Buddy studied history and received his teaching degree from Southern California College in Costa Mesa. He spent his nights and weekends singing in the Musical Ambassadors Choir and often sat at the organ with Andraé Crouch after they became friends in Pacoima. Shortly after beginning his teaching career at Hitchcock ISD, he approached the head football coach and asked if he could help in any way. Filming the games came easy to him and soon he was made an assistant coach and then head coach of the junior varsity Bulldogs. He taught for some 11 years, coached 13, completed his master’s degree and found his passion for counseling, ultimately retiring from the school district in 1997. Through those years, he also played organ, directed the choir, taught Sunday school, and so much more at Mainland Assembly of God in Hitchcock. Bro. Buddy took on the role of pastor when the church later transitioned to Word of Faith.  During this time, he met a young preacher with the Fire of God in his heart and on his head. Coincidence, we think not. The heart of Bro. Buddy aligned with the vision of Pastor Walter Hallam of Abundant Life and a friendship was born.  He began teaching in the school of ministry, filled various positions in the Christian school, became a part of the care team, and served in numerous other roles. Substitution, Identification and Union, Types of Christ, Righteousness, and ZOE were some of his favorite subjects to teach.  Bro. Buddy was known for starting with a song, leading into confessions, stories of mother, and so much more.  “What about all my misses? – WHAT MISSES?  “UGG – WHAT ROCK?!; and “Jesus in a Bunny suit” were just some of his memorable lessons.

Some called him “The Weeping Prophet”, many Bro. Buddy, others Coach Herring, Spiritual Father, Husband, Dad, Brother, Friend. Eighty years of life on this earth devoted to the “One he loved”. Whether guiding students in prayer before a game, driving the bus to FCA meetings, giving counsel with a distraught student, going to Grenada and Trinidad for missions work, compelling the lost with “The Apple Tree Song” or celebrating with “Packing Up”, praying for the sick and downtrodden, igniting the flame of service in countless ministry school students, or daily life as loving husband and caring father. This JESUS IN A BUDDY SUIT proclaimed the mercy and grace of our Lord with sincerity, compassion, and gentle wisdom.

We joyfully ask you to join us in celebration of a life fully lived and dedicated the Lord Jesus Christ. Services will be held at Abundant Life Christian Center, Monday February 24, 2025, at 11am. Visitation to start at 10am and reception afterward. Interment at Hayes Grace Memorial Park, Hitchcock.

In lieu of gifts or flowers, we encourage you to donate to your favorite charity. May we suggest Casa Angelina Orphanage in Guatemala c/o What Matters Ministries and Missions, a place close to our hearts.

Arrangements are entrusted with the Crowder Funeral Home in La Marque.

20 comments

  1. Susan and the boys, Gene and I are praying for y’all. God bless you all. We are so sad for your loss. It was a loss to so many to lose such a beautiful man of God

    Gene and Sonny Anderson
  2. What a beautiful biography. I knew Buddy from years ago at Mainland Assembly of God on Delaney Road. He was the choir director. He was always smiling, enthusiastic, and funny. I was raised Catholic so the songs he led the choir in were a shock to the solemn music I had grown up with in church. The music was celebratory, so much so I joined the choir. True, it had a lot to do with a certain Assembly of God young lady I had met. But the example Buddy gave with testimonies and example are obviously things I’ve never forgotten. As for songs, I’ll never forget the first time I heard “Packing Up”…wow, my favorite. Time has since moved forward and we’ve all grown older. But, folks like Buddy will never be forgotten and the lives he touched are better for having known him. God bless you, Buddy and thank you.

    Mark Reid
  3. Susan and family I’m so sorry for your loss and your in my prayers. Brother Buddy was one of the kindest and most caring man I was blessed to to know, he was one of the of my teachers in Bible school at ALCC I was always excited to go to class because he made everything easy to understand. He will be missed by everyone, thank you Brother Buddy for all the people you helped z

    Sharon Murillo
  4. Bro. Buddy There are no words to say how much you meant to the Campbell Family you were always there for us you prayed for us cried with us celebrated with us I really loved you Brother Buddy you will always be in heart till we meet again I love you Brother Buddy.

    Patricia Campbell
  5. Susan and all the family , so sorry for this temporary loss here but in a little while the great reunion forever 😊Thank you for sharing , Bro . Buddy was one of a kind , loved everyone and the meekest servant example of Jesus . Richard and I had him as. Bible school teacher with a tender compassionate heart, He was apart of everything at ALCC., other than seeing,hearing and experiencing you would never know all the gifts and talents he has he never said . Thank you for Bro. Buddy , encourager , joyful , wisdom, helper, faithful,peaceful humorous servant of God🙏🏻♥️

    Joyce Cucco
  6. Coach Herring was my counselor at Hitchcock High School. He was a fine man. With the exception of my wife(I’m biased, I know) I don’t think there has ever been a finer counselor in the history of education. As a student, you always knew he was there for you to provide wisdom and guidance.

    Steve Lamb
  7. My life was so blessed for having Brother Buddy as my teacher at ALSOM!
    He taught us so many lasting ways we could carry the Gospel into our individual mission fields! One I use and will never forget was Brother Buddy asking us to go around the classroom and each of us using our own name to say out loud: “I’m Jesus Christ in a Sandy suit!” One classmate made her class fall apart when she said: “I’m Jesus Christ in a Bunny suit”! We all loved Brother Buddy and his singing 🎶 during class! He was the weeping teacher, and brought us to tears too, because he showed us his love for Teacher Jesus and shared that deep love with us!

    He also allowed me to type up all his class lessons and his sister’s class notes at another School of Ministry also! Bless his heart he knew I needed all the help I could get in order to graduate and hide God’s words in my heart! I will look forward to seeing him again in Heaven around the Throne!

    Sandy Potter Nuckles
  8. Bro Buddy was a teacher of mine in ALSOM. Everyone talks about him weeping but I remember us laughing all the time! His smile was infectious. As time passed, he always remained an encourager in my life. He is a great example of a father. May we all learn from his life.

    See you on the other side my friend,
    GFW

    GF Watkins
  9. We was my teacher at Abundant Life Christian Center in 2005 – 2006, he will be missed very much and I’ll always remember him “Brother Buddy”

    Ángel Lomelí
  10. Oh my WORD! Coach Herring !!! I have been praising God and my heart is dancing in the spirit, knowing that you have now seen the face of God!! Glory Hallelujah!!
    My deepest condolences to your beautiful, precious family and all those who love you, for I know they will truly miss you, and life for them here on this Earth will never be the same.
    However , I feel without a doubt, they are also celebrating you meeting your Lord and Savior ,Jesus Christ!
    Because of you, I graduated in 1983 instead of 1984. I’ll never forget the day that you called me into the office to tell me that all I needed was my English 4 and my Math 4 to be a 1983 graduate!
    It was a bit bittersweet ,as I had formed friends with the 1984 class , and being a recent transplant from Ball High , so new to Hitchcock.
    You as my guidance counselor and my friend made that transition so peaceful & with ease. I felt very welcomed to HHS.
    The spirit of the Lord was always upon you.
    You were such a blessing to all of your kids at HHS.
    Save me a seat in Heaven , Coach, and please watch over my situation from above.
    In Love & forever friendship ,you baby sister in Christ
    Sharon (Bennett) Phillips

    Sharon Bennett
  11. As a young man of faith in high school, he and I had some very good conversations about life and the importance of faith. I enjoyed the time we spent together and he always had a kind word for everyone.
    The world is a little darker today…

    Marshall Travis
  12. My first memories of Buddy were when our church in Galveston would attend the District Christ Ambassadors’ meeting at Bro. Herring, Sr.’s church. I remember seeing him sitting with his mother in service and always blessing us with a song. Buddy and Susan were a blessing with friendship and fellowship when we were both young married couples with small children. Blessed to have known Buddy and see him grow in the Lord over the years.

    Jody Hall
  13. If the senior trombone player in the LMHS band had not been smitten by the cute sophomore snare drummer all those years ago, I probably would never have known Buddy, Buddy married the drummer, my little sister Susan, so I gained a brother.
    I was blessed to have known you, Buddy. I loved that you loved my sister so well.
    My heart broke for Susan, Jim and Kevin when you passed from this life but what joy you must have felt when you saw the face of your precious Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
    Oh, and by the way, you were supposed to sing at my funeral.
    I love you, Mary Helen

    Mary Helen Slone
  14. Coach was a wonderful man who actually cared about anyone he came in contact with always a leader and taking time to teach us, his students the right way to conduct yourself. I’m saddened to hear of your passing but coach Herring you are with God in Heaven. Rest in peace coach and thank you for being a part of my life.

    Roland Gaytan
  15. Susie and sons, so sorry to hear about Buddy. What a wonderful man that was loved by so many. Hopefully you and your family will keep his wonderful accomplishments and memories alive in your heart Love to all, Kaye

    Kaye Britt
  16. Bro. Buddy, you truly helped me during my Seminary Days I appreciate everything you spoke into my life while I attended Abundant Life I will always remember your kind and tender heart for Gods people. RIH till we meet again Oh yeah My Momma Rose is there yall keep the laughter going!
    Much love

    Minister Sugar Trask
  17. Our condolences to Susan and family in their loss. Buddy was an exceptional neighbor. Tim and I always enjoyed talking with him over the years.

    Richmond family
  18. I first met Bro. Buddy Herring at Mainland Assembly of God Church on Delaney Rd in Hitchcock, Tx. in the early 80’s. At that time Bro Buddy worked with the church choir. Of course I joined the choir and loved every moment! We were taught by Bro. Buddy to worship in Spirit and Truth! All that I ever witnessed from him was a great love for Jesus, love for his family and for all others!
    Bro Buddy wass a great asset for the Kingdom of God! Thank you Jesus for such an humble and loving servant given as a gift to all who knew him!

    Sherry Lyons
  19. What a beautiful obituary. It sounds like a life well-lived. I fondly remember brother Buddy as our School of Ministry teacher (1990- 1992) and fellow church member. I appreciate his sense of humor, insightfulness, and gentle nature. I am grateful to have known him.

    Susan Davies
  20. I loved Coach Herring! He would bring joy to anyone’s worst day. He was so encouraging. I’m saddened by his passing but I believe his soul is with the Lord! I will see him again one day!

    Jacqueline Franklin

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