Mary Elizabeth “Liz” Felscher Fleming
Mary Elizabeth “Liz” Felscher Fleming embarked on her wondrous journey on February 8, 2017, to reunite with her beloved husband, Brevared Kelleog “Darby” Fleming, and past family and friends. “Sis”, “Mom”, “Grandma”, “Great Grandma”, “GGma,” she lived an extraordinary life of blessings. Born in Houston, November 28, 1931, Liz grew up in Galveston and graduated Ball High School in 1948.
On October 12, 1948, Liz and Darby began their glorious love affair. They met at Galveston Beach and enjoyed many good times at the skating rink and bowling alley. They were married June 6, 1949, setting up house in Galveston and starting their family with sons B.K. Jr., Greg, and Chris. The family moved from the Island in 1959 to League City adding another son, Matt, and Darby’s namesake daughter, Darve`. Liz took country-living in stride with its own sense of challenges, from “party line” telephones to bullfrogs in the bathtub to bobcat paws hidden in the mattress to “pet” snakes in the garage.
Liz and Darby were very active in all of their kids’ activities. Liz was an integral part of the League City Historical Society documenting many of the city’s early events. She helped with St. Mary’s Bazaar, League City Little League, and Fairview Cemetery. Liz served as Team Mom and head cheerleader for her sons’ many sports activities. She always felt a connection to the Island, spending many Sundays at West Beach with family and friends, and enjoying many walks along the beach searching for sand dollars and shark’s teeth.
As the children grew, Liz was involved with setting up the League City Library and went to work for the local newspaper, The News Citizen. With her extensive gossip network, she authored a weekly column, “Under the Hair Dryer.”
The 80s, 90s and new millennium brought grandchildren and great grandchildren. Liz was a great Mom but proved to be an even greater Grandma. This seemed to be her life’s calling as she and Grandpa attended school field trips, dance recitals, band and choir concerts, softball and basketball games. With seven granddaughters, they were always on the go supporting the myriad of activities. She spent many hours singing nursery rhymes, playing board games, and passing out Butterfly Kisses to any youngster within her reach. Liz had a deep appreciation for history. As a Daughter of the Confederacy, the granddaughters became involved with Children of the Confederacy. Liz loved to sing Dixie!
The family grew and grew with large gatherings for Thanksgiving and Christmas, crawfish boils and pig roasts at the Smith and Jones backyard parties, and each New Year’s Day everyone enjoyed Liz’s annual good luck meal of pork roast, cabbage, black-eyed peas and mashed potatoes – Yum! She taught her granddaughters the cooking secrets of many of her specialties including Dumplings, Carrot Cake, and Sand Tarts.
While her health declined these past few years, she accepted her trials and tribulations – she loved to know everything about everyone and being involved with the conversation of our lives. She tracked the family’s genealogy and loved to add HUGS on everyone’s Facebook posts. Liz touched so many lives; she will be missed, but never forgotten.
In her passing, she is preceded by her husband, Darby. She is survived by her five children and their spouses B.K. Jr., Greg and Pam, Chris, Matt and Suzie, Darve` and Favorite Son-in-Law Mark Hamman; grandchildren Krissy Fleming, Shallon and Al Barboza, Melissa and Matt McDonald, Amanda and Jeff Vacek, Stephanie and Jason Cole, Ginny Fleming, and DeLynne and Michael Lockwood; great grandchildren Amy, James-Michael, Zachary, Alison, Matthew, Emma, Hannah, Jacob, Leah, Everett, Evelyn, Harrison and Declan; great great grandson, Kingsley; and grand dog Jammer. Liz’s extensive family will carry on her legacy of love.
A vigil and rosary is scheduled for Tuesday, February 14, from 5pm to 8pm, at Crowder Funeral Home, 1645 E. Main St, League City. The rosary will begin at 7pm. The funeral services will be the next day, February 15, at 11am. Graveside services will be at Fairview Cemetery immediately afterwards.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the Fairview Cemetery, League City Library, or the charity of your choice.
To Mom in heaven, almost 21yrs ago you accepted me without question. You also loved me unconditionally as your own. You told me almost every time you saw me that you loved me. I hope you know how much that meant/means to me. I LOVE YOU TOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your pain is gone now and you’re with Darby, tell him Howdy for me ok. I’ll take care of/love your girl for you.
Your FAVORITE Son N Law
Mark
What a lovely woman whose life’s delight can be seen in the faces of her children. Time now for an eternal rest.
Mrs Fleming was a marvelously warm and welcoming spirit. A jovial soul who was quick to laugh. Loving and generous of spirit and so sweet with children. Her Alaskan family will miss her greatly……
I’m so sorry to see this about Mary Elizabeth. My condolences and prayers to all the family. We sure had a lot of fun at the Back Yard Bashes. I know she will be missed.
Bob Meiresonne
We were fortunate to have shared so much in the past 38 years or so; Matt & Suzie’s wedding, granddaughters recitals and hi-school graduations, eight beautiful great-grandchildren, many special family get-togethers, Thanksgiving dinners, encouraging my family history research, the loss of our life-partners…..thanks for the memories……
You will he greatly missed. I will miss seeing your post and comments and I will especially miss your HUGS.
Dear Sis,
We have spent many of our years talking and going places, you were the most wonderful friend, that I have ever had. Not only did you love me and I love you,
you were a wonderful adopted sis to me since 1966. Thank you for the gift of you, and thank You, Jesus, for giving me the privilege of knowing one of your daughters.
Love is forever to you, Liz
rose
Liz I love and already miss you. You were my Mentor, my first job out of high school where you groomed ne at the newspaper and showed me everything you knew. You shaped and molded my life and career. Without you, I would not have been a successful Designer and Art Director. You turned over the Production Dept. to me at The News Citizrn when you were done. Thank you for everything. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. HUGGGGS
Mary Elizabeth was a good friend and never refused to help a fellow historian.
I Will Miss her she was my Classmate and E-Mail Buddy. We Graduate together in !948 From Ball High. I Worked with her Sons and A Member of I.B.E.W.
mY CONDOLENCES go out to the Family.
R.I.P. dear Mary, knowing you are loved by so many. I last
saw you at Helen Petrowski’s funeral of all places. Why is it that
we only see our friends at weddings and funerals as we get older?
I’ll definitely miss “sharing” life’s events on FB with you. With that
being said, I will simply end by saying, “Hugs.”
I was lucky to have had both of Darve’s parents in my young life. They took me along to their beach house and fed me countless meals. I loved the way Mr. Fleming flocked his Christmas trees, and Mrs. Fleming was such an awesome cook. May you find peace during theses difficult times and may God Bless your family. Rest In Peace Mrs. Fleming.
Liz, I will always miss all the wonderful things you have shared on Facebook .
Especially your HUGS and the Cruise we shared with our families. HUGS
I am saddened to learn of Mrs. Fleming’s passing. She and my mother have been close friends since we moved to League City in 1964. When my grandmother passed away in May 1966, we returned from Jack Rowe’s to find that all the dishes had been washed, laundry washed, folded and put away and the whole house cleaned – Mrs. Fleming had done all that so Mom wouldn’t have to. They were faithful marjan (sp) players and exchanged paperback books so each would always have something to read. May you rest in peace, Mrs. Fleming, and may angels welcome you into paradise.
Liz we miss you already. We loved you so much. Hoping you and my Mom will meet in Heaven and share life and stories. I am so thankful your Granddaughter DeLynne and my daughter went to school together so I met your daughter then you. You were like a grandmother to me. Thank you for thinking of us as family. You were the sweetest Lady anyone could meet and caring. It will never be the same without you. I will forever be best friends with Darve’ . Will always remember you and think of our memories Liz. We love you. Rest in peace.
I will miss all of your loving comments Liz. You kept my mother so alive in my heart with all your memories of her. I know that you will be in the hearts of so many. I will pray for your family. You were loved so very much. B.K., Greg, Chris, Matt, and Darve`, your mother was a jewel. She and my mother, Leola, enjoyed coffee together along with making memories. I will cherish those memories she shared with me. I hope you cherish all the memories as well.
All my love Liz and all my Condolences Fleming Family,
Susan Antichevich Boivie
I am so sorry for your loss! Mrs Flemming and my mom had a sweet friendship, starting with children (me and BK) in kindergarten at Sacred Heart. It was so nice to connect with her these past few years on Facebook. You will all be in my prayers.