Lucian Albert Martin was born on November 8, 1933, in Altus, Oklahoma. As he grew older, his journey took him through many challenges. He attended 44 different schools, moving so frequently that he became accustomed to being a loner, finding his way in new environments and often doing so on his own. Through it all, he carried a quiet strength within him, adapting to each new chapter with resilience. These experiences shaped the man he became—someone who learned to rely on himself and face life with courage, even in the face of uncertainty.

One story he often shared with us from his teenage years was when he worked for my great-grandmother, picking cotton one summer. It was grueling work, but after a few weeks, he turned to her and said, “Mamma Lexie, I want you to know I do not want to pick cotton for a living.” That simple, yet profound moment revealed deep determination and a vision for a different future. Lucian knew there was more for him beyond that life, and from that day forward, he set out to create a future of his own making. His unwavering belief that things could be different, his relentless work ethic, and his perseverance became the foundation of the man he would grow to be.

His sense of duty led him to serve in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War. As a radioman aboard sub tenders, he played a vital role in ensuring communication remained intact during a critical time in history. The job required precision, focus, and a deep sense of responsibility. Although he didn’t speak often about his time in the service, it was clear that those years helped shape his character, instilling in him the values of discipline and loyalty that he carried with him throughout his life.

Whether it was picking cotton for his great-grandmother, enduring the loneliness of moving from school to school, or serving in the Navy, He always believed he could create a better future. He was a man who believed in hard work, in overcoming adversity, and in forging his own path. His legacy is one of perseverance, quiet strength, and the unwavering belief that we are the architects of our own destinies.

Lucian spent most of his later years helping family members who were ill. When his wife Dianne’s mother had fallen ill to Alzheimer’s, they decided to move down the street to be closer to take care of her. This went on for some years until her passing. Dad then brought Posey, (AKA Mama Posey) his mother, into their home for the remaining years of her life. Her battle was Emphysema. It went on for a few years as well. Time went on and it turned out his wife Dianne was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Dad felt the need to keep her in familiar surroundings, so he cared for her at home. Her disease progressed, making it harder for Lucian to care for her and himself on his own. The decision was made to put her in assisted living. It wasn’t long after that when she passed. At this point in his life, it was time for Lucian to be cared for. The remaining family came up with a plan and he continued with Goldie and Lil Mama, his cat’s, at home for most of his remaining years.

Lucian Albert Martin leaves behind more than just a family, he leaves a legacy of strength, love, and resilience. He is survived by his three sons, four grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren, of whom he carries his values forward in their own lives. The lessons he taught us through his actions, his work ethic, and his quiet strength will continue to guide us. Though he may no longer be physically with us, his love and wisdom will echo in our hearts for generations to come. L A, Lucian, Al, GP, GGP, Bid Daddy, or Dad, whatever you knew him by, will be missed, His stories will be remembered forever.