FRANCIS “FRANK” SAMUEL TRIGILIO

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Francis (“Frank”) Samuel Trigilio III.  If life was like a round of golf, Frank would be just making the turn and stopping at the clubhouse for a beer.  He was a young man, and he has left us far too soon.  Frank passed on August 14, 2024 in the presence of his loving wife, Patti, his daughter, Tara, and with the thoughts and prayers of his family and his many friends and colleagues in both Houston and Erie.

Frank was born on December 28, 1949, in Erie, Pennsylvania, to Rose and Francis Trigilio II.  Rose passed away when Frank was still very young, and he was raised by his father and stepmother, Margaret Trigilio.  Frank’s siblings include Mary Ann Trigilio Powell (now in Sigel, Pennsylvania), Anthony Trigilio (now in Chicago, Illinois), and Carmen Trigilio, deceased.

Frank graduated from Erie’s McDowell High School in 1968.  He then spent a few years working hard on his passion – baseball – and tried his very best to play professionally.  Then, in 1971, Frank enlisted in the United States Army.  He was stationed at Fort Hamilton in Brooklyn until he was assigned to the 1st Cavalry Division in Vietnam.  Frank received a Commendation Medal and was honorably discharged as a Specialist E-5 in August 1975.

After serving his country, Frank attended Mercyhurst College in Erie, where he studied hotel and restaurant management and where he continued to play baseball.  Ultimately, Frank landed in the oil and gas industry, and specifically the pipeline measurement industry, where he spent more than 40 years in sales for LTS and Smith Meter in Erie, and for MTI in Houma, Louisiana.  His knowledge and experience in this field will be greatly missed.

Frank found himself on the job in Houston in 2002, and discovered that, in Houston, he could play golf every month of the year.  So, as much as he loved Erie, and his Erie friends, Houston became his home.  That same year he met his wife and his best friend, Patti, and as they say, the rest is history.

Frank stayed active.  His hobbies included golf, bowling, softball, baseball, motorcycles, woodworking, and photography.  Frank loved baseball and he loved to play and coach softball.  He was an avid bowler — he bowled 2-300 games and held a 202 average.  He loved the wind in his face when he was riding his Harley.  And most of all, Frank loved being with and around his family and his friends, both in Houston and in Erie.  Frank especially loved going back to Erie to visit friends and family, to attend reunions, and ride motorcycles.  In short, he loved the people in his life, and they loved him.

Frank was a good guy, and an optimist.  He had a great sense of humor, and he could light up the room with his sense of humor and quick wit.  He will be missed by everyone that knows him.

In Pennsylvania, Frank is survived by his children, Tara Trigilio (Jeremy) Biddle, and Frank Samuel Trigilio IV; and by his grandchildren Austin, Avery, Lincoln and Frank V.  In Houston, Frank is survived by his wife, Patricia (“Patti”) Maher Trigilio, by his step-children Jake (Amber), Tanya (Leo) and Wesley (Danielle), by his grandchildren Madi, Luke, Bryce, Hattie, Sophia and Melissa, and by his puppies, Cosmo and Kramer.

On Monday, August 19, 2024, a memorial service will be held for Frank at New Hope Church, 15503 Zabolio Drive, Webster, Texas 77598.  Viewing will begin at 6:00 p.m. and the service will follow at 7:00 p.m.  The family requests (but does not require!) that those attending wear Houston Astros apparel.

Services in Erie will begin with a viewing on Thursday, August 22, 2024, from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at East Lake Road Alliance Church, 4500 East Lake Road, Erie, Pennsylvania 16511, under the funeral direction of John Orlando Funeral Home.  The funeral service will be held on Friday, August 23, 2024, beginning at 10:00 a.m.  Burial will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery on West Lake Road.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the American Cancer Society. www.donate.cancer.org.  #Cancer Sucks.

12 comments

  1. Frank, the laughter you brought to us all will be missed. I have no doubt you have already bowled a few games in heaven! Keep rooting for the ‘Stros! May God bless you and keep your family strong.

    Beth Everett
  2. Made several motorcycle rides with Frank here in Houston. He was a great guy and friend, he will truly be missed

    steve yon
  3. Frank you will be miss by us all ! Rest in peace my friend. You will always be with us in spirit.

    Ron Holden
  4. Rest in Peace dear cousin. You definitely had your dad’s sense of humor. Will offer a Mass for the repose of your soul.

    Father John Trigilio, Jr.
  5. Frank I will surely miss you at bowling, even your funny smart witty remarks.. You made it look so easy. Anyone could see your best friend and love of your life was bowling right along with you. At least you won’t leave any ten pins in heaven. You made quite a impression on most and bowling won’t be the same without you. See you again one day

    Hazel Wreyford
  6. RIP my friend. I’m honored to have been able to work with you and even be your roommate for a short time in Houston until you met Patti and then I had the whole 2 bedroom company apartment to myself 😁. You made everyone around you better and happier. You even made those painful sales meetings tolerable with your jokes and fake hat hair you wore. You will be missed.

    Steve Everley
  7. Great person known him since my days in Erie and then in Houston. Rest in peace and condolences to all his family and friends.

    Ron Ream
  8. Rest in peace Brother, I will always remember the fun times we had together.

    Bud Pernice
  9. RIP Frank, truly one of the world’s good guys. I learnt so much working alongside Frank and his sense of fun.

    David Currie
  10. Frank, you will be missed!! God Bless!!

    BUCK HATCH
  11. Frank certainly did light up the room wherever he went and had such a genuine care for people. Great man. Will be missed.

    Chris Levy
  12. I miss you so much.

    Patti

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