Hermes Capulong Ocera
Hermes Capulong Ocera, 74, also known as “Paki” to his grandkids, was called to be with his Lord and Savior on September 25, 2018 in Houston, Texas. Hermes was born on February 1, 1944 in San Fernando, Pampanga, Philippines to Rev. Hector and Magdalena (Capulong) Ocera.
On October 30, 1965 Hermes married the love of his life, Melba Ely Lacsamana Yabut. He graduated from Manila Central University College of Medicine in the Philippines in 1970. He dreamed of a life of opportunity for his family and made the move to Johnstown, Pennsylvania in 1972 where the family was “adopted” by a caring elderly couple they lovingly called Grandma & Grandpa Chapel. In 1977, Hermes moved the family to Houston, Texas, where he was granted a fellowship under pioneering Cardiologist, Dr. Denton Cooley, at the Texas Heart Institute. He spent most of his remarkable career at Danforth Memorial Hospital in Texas City as Chief Anesthesiologist while his family settled down in Clear Lake City, Texas.
Hermes was deeply devoted to his family and loved karaoke parties, potlucks, road trips, holiday get-togethers, and family vacations. (He would often be seen dancing at many of these.) He was a long time fan of the Houston Astros and Rockets, and enjoyed listening (and singing) to the music of Tom Jones, Neil Diamond, and Elvis. He was an avid reader and was always eager to learn new things, including carpentry, gardening, and playing the piano. Hermes was a man of great faith, humility, high character, patience, and incredible loyalty. He genuinely loved people. We will miss his infectious smile, his contagious laugh, his warm hugs, and his kind and compassionate spirit.
Hermes was preceded in death by his father, Hector, his mother, Magdalena, his brother, Hector Jr., and his sister, Heidi Duenas. He is survived by his loving wife of 52 years: Melba Ocera; son: Hermes Jojo Ocera, grandchildren: Elizabeth, Kyle and Katie; daughter: Hermely Mellette Ocera Berezoski and husband, Joe, grandchildren: Joseph, Maysie and Dayton; daughter: Herwina Winnie Ocera, grandchildren: Brody and Trinity; brother: Homer Ocera, and sisters: Hazel Fontanilla and Helen Gorospe.
A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, October 3, 2018 at 11:00am at Clear Lake United Methodist Church on 16335 El Camino Real, Houston, Texas, 77062. Reception immediately following.
I remember Kuya Hermes as always cheerful during those reunion times in Sam Simon. He was kind hearted and very warm person. Also, I remember when he joined this game show hosted by Eddie Ilarde, Pepe Pimentel and Helen Vela. He won at the time.
My deepest sympathy to the Ocera family. My heart goes out to you. When going through the loss of my father, a scripture that brought me comfort is Isa. 41:10. There God implores us to not be anxious because he is with us and lovingly assures us ” I will really hold on to you with my right hand.” May the God of all comfort be with you at this difficult time. ( 2 Cor. 1:3,4 )
Hermes was always a very loving, kind, and compassionate, man of faith
He is greatly missed. Our family grieves profoundly . We find comfort in knowing that he is in a better place, where God promises no more pain, no crying, no suffering, no problem whatsoever. Ner and I cherish the time we had with him and my sister, Melba, in the Philippines last May. . Wish we had more time together. To: Melba and Family -You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love you all.
Dear Mare Melba, Jojo/ family, Mellette/ family & Winnie & family,
Extend our deepest sympathy to you all. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Pare Hermes will be missed and remember forever in our hearts.
Love you all,
The Delavictoria family
A kind, generous human being while he was in this world, and will be remembered as such by those of us who came to know him.
He is now in loving arms of the Lord, eternally at peace.
Our love and deepest sympathy to you, Melba, Jojo, Melette & Winnie, your spouses and children. The grandkids will sorely miss their “Lolo”.
Praying for your strength and courage at this most difficult time.
Susan & Butch V-G., Iris & Liza
Our deepest condolence to Melba and family. We will miss Hermes, a good man and a family man. We send our love and prayers on his journey to heaven. May the eternal light shine upon him always.
Ed & Sonia Tioseco
Dear Ocera Family,
It was heartbreaking to learn of Uncle Hermes passing. We send our love and prayers for comfort and peace.
Yvonne and Jeff Bennett